Erik : 10 months
Good
- First love
- Go with the flow
- Very Intimate
- Fun, went out a lot
- Expressed desire and pride for me
Bad
- Judgmental at times of food or body, but not mean
- Liked drinking a little too much
- Left me the minute something was difficult
- Did not discuss future
- Only met family twice
Kyle : 1 year and a few weeks
Good
- Friends to Relationship
- We talked about the future at some point
- Best sex
- Held my hand
- Gave compliments
- Asked about me and my interests
- Enjoyed his family
- Adventures outside
Bad
- Didn't know how to communicate with me
- Did not discuss future enough
Matt : 5 plus years
Good
- Lots of fun together
- Disneyland memories and trips
- Movies, we both loved all sorts
- Love started very started very early
- Company during hard times for both of us
- Great cat dad to Toki & Piper
- His family welcomed me with open arms
- Traditions at Disneyland, Chicken Shack
- always had a feeling of comfort from/with him
- Felt like home
- Collecting pops was always a fun little adventure
- Always excited to see him
- Silliness together
- Always made me smile or laugh
- That goofy little wave he did
- Combing my fingers through his hair
- Santa Cruz & Tiki mugs
- Great gift giver
- Good roommates
- Always surprising me with little trinkets
- Cared about me and my health
- I loved his excitement about things and how excited he got telling or showing me things, like Disneyland
Bad
- No compliments
- Didn't show interest in my day or my hobbies
- No communication about his feelings
- Lacked empathy and concern about medical things
- No work/life balance
- Ended things without trying to improve or change anything
- I had to bring up what was wrong and practically breakup with myself
- Not willing to try new foods or eat what I wanted
- Didn’t really want to travel
- Not romantic
- Never bought me flowers
- Sex got a little “stale” but I think this was me mostly
- Slob